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Mother’s Gifts to Children Create Dispute Over Special Needs Daughter

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SEPTEMBER 21, 2015 VOLUME 22 NUMBER 34

What plans should you make when you have a child receiving Supplemental Security Income (SSI) or Medicaid benefits? Should you create a special needs trust? Disinherit that child so their benefits won’t be affected? Leave their “share” of your estate to another child or children instead?

We get asked this question regularly. Most of the time our answer is easy, and strongly delivered: create a special needs trust. Choose a trustworthy child to administer the trust, or maybe a professional trustee. Let the trustee act as your surrogate after your death — deciding how to use the trust’s money to best benefit your child.

Do not, whatever you do, leave your child’s inheritance to another child with instructions to take care of their sibling. Do not do that even if you completely trust that child. Do not do it even if you are prepared to write something that makes clear that they are not required to behave honorably — that you are not trying to create a de facto trust for your child with disabilities.

Why not? Because bad feelings will be generated. Litigation is likely to be involved. Your children, and their children, and your sons-in-law and daughters-in-law, can not be counted on to all agree about how they should behave — especially with you not around to exercise moral authority over them.

How do we know this? Because of Mary Jane. Let us explain.

Mary Jane had several children. We’re going to call them Robin, Randi, Rachel, William and Walter. Robin is developmentally disabled. In 1995, Walter died in a terrible accident. At the time, Mary Jane received a settlement from Walter’s death; she gave $51,000 of her settlement money to each of her children, except that she gave $102,000 to Randi and less than $1 to Robin.

Did Mary Jane intend to have Randi use the “extra” $51,000 share for Robin’s benefit? At the time she said not — there was explicitly no restriction on how Randi could use her gift. The family problem created by this uncertainty didn’t become active until almost two decades later.

After she made the gifts to her children, Mary Jane did her own estate planning. She created a special needs trust for Robin, naming William as trustee. An equal share of her estate was to go to the special needs trust upon her death. She also helped Robin sign a power of attorney, naming William as her agent after Mary Jane’s death. Then, in 2003, Mary Jane died.

After Mary Jane’s death, her third daughter (Rachel) began asking Randi what she had done with what she, Rachel, thought of as “Robin’s” $51,000 gift from back in 1995. Randi declined to tell her. Rachel then turned to William, insisting that he should make Randi answer her questions. He, in turn, also declined to act.

At this point, it’s worth reviewing the players. Robin was to receive an equal share of Mary Jane’s estate, though in a special needs trust. But Robin had not received an equal gift from the settlement of Mary Jane’s claim arising from Walter’s death. Instead, Randi had a double share. Meanwhile, William had been put in charge of Robin’s inheritance and also managed Robin’s own affairs. Rachel had no apparent standing or role in any of these arrangements.

Still, when Rachel did not get a satisfactory answer, she filed a lawsuit. She sued Randi (for not agreeing that half of her 1995 gift was really for Robin) and William (for not insisting that Randi account for that gift). She asked that the court make Randi account, and that the $51,000 (plus interest) should be held in trust for Robin’s benefit.

The trial judge dismissed Rachel’s lawsuit, finding that she had produced no evidence that the gift from Mary Jane was in trust at all. Rachel appealed.

The Wisconsin Court of Appeals upheld the dismissal. The appellate judges agreed that there was no evidence that Mary Jane had intended the “double” gift to Randi to be a trust for Robin. Dismissal of the lawsuit was proper. Robbins v. Foseid, September 3, 2015.

How does Mary Jane’s case establish the importance of actually creating a trust? After all, assuming that she did not intend to make Randi’s “double” gift a trust, the courts upheld her intentions, right?

Yes, but at a significant cost — both in legal fees and in family disharmony. Of course we don’t have enough information about her family to know if they generally got along well before the death of Walter and Mary Jane’s gifts to her children. If they did mostly get along, however, her failure to be clear about her intentions might be a significant part of the later decline in the relationship.

If, on the other hand, Mary Jane actually did intend the double gift to benefit Robin, those intentions are now completely dependent on Randi’s goodwill toward Robin. Maybe Randi will do exactly the right thing, but wouldn’t it have been more effective and better thinking for Mary Jane to have made the original gift into a special needs trust — probably just like the one she created a year later as part of her estate plan? And what happens now if Randi should die, leaving her estate to her husband, or her children, or her creditors?

Our basic point: when you are making plans for your child who has a disability, you should not count on everyone correctly guessing your intentions, or acting honorably, or even living long enough to carry out the tasks you are implicitly setting for them. Make your intentions explicit, and the lines of authority clear. Create a special needs trust.

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Robert B. Fleming

Attorney

Robert Fleming is a Fellow of both the American College of Trust and Estate Counsel and the National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys. He has been certified as a Specialist in Estate and Trust Law by the State Bar of Arizona‘s Board of Legal Specialization, and he is also a Certified Elder Law Attorney by the National Elder Law Foundation. Robert has a long history of involvement in local, state and national organizations. He is most proud of his instrumental involvement in the Special Needs Alliance, the premier national organization for lawyers dealing with special needs trusts and planning.

Robert has two adult children, two young grandchildren and a wife of over fifty years. He is devoted to all of them. He is also very fond of Rosalind Franklin (his office companion corgi), and his homebound cat Muninn. He just likes people, their pets and their stories.

Elizabeth N.R. Friman

Attorney

Elizabeth Noble Rollings Friman is a principal and licensed fiduciary at Fleming & Curti, PLC. Elizabeth enjoys estate planning and helping families navigate trust and probate administrations. She is passionate about the fiduciary work that she performs as a trustee, personal representative, guardian, and conservator. Elizabeth works with CPAs, financial professionals, case managers, and medical providers to tailor solutions to complex family challenges. Elizabeth is often called upon to serve as a neutral party so that families can avoid protracted legal conflict. Elizabeth relies on the expertise of her team at Fleming & Curti, and as the Firm approaches its third decade, she is proud of the culture of care and consideration that the Firm embodies. Finding workable solutions to sensitive and complex family challenges is something that Elizabeth and the Fleming & Curti team do well.

Amy F. Matheson

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Amy Farrell Matheson has worked as an attorney at Fleming & Curti since 2006. A member of the Southern Arizona Estate Planning Council, she is primarily responsible for estate planning and probate matters.

Amy graduated from Wellesley College with a double major in political science and English. She is an honors graduate of Suffolk University Law School and has been admitted to practice in Arizona, Massachusetts, New York, and the District of Columbia.

Prior to joining Fleming & Curti, Amy worked for American Public Television in Boston, and with the international trade group at White & Case, LLP, in Washington, D.C.

Amy’s husband, Tom, is an astronomer at NOIRLab and the Head of Time Domain Services, whose main project is ANTARES. Sadly, this does not involve actual time travel. Amy’s twin daughters are high school students; Finn, her Irish Red and White Setter, remains a puppy at heart.

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Matthew M. Mansour

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Matthew is a law clerk who recently earned his law degree from the University of Arizona James E. Rogers College of Law. His undergraduate degree is in psychology from the University of California, Santa Barbara. Matthew has had a passion for advocacy in the Tucson community since his time as a law student representative in the Workers’ Rights Clinic. He also has worked in both the Pima County Attorney’s Office and the Pima County Public Defender’s Office. He enjoys playing basketball, caring for his cat, and listening to audiobooks narrated by the authors.